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Sunday, November 7, 2010
The Bride
In a silk saree and a anarkali suit which i seldom wear.When it comes to weddings,the groom can walk in wearing a pair of jeans,but the bride is expected in a traditional out and adorn atleast a piece of jewellery.....not fair.
Even in the distant 17 th century Rabbi Yitzhak ben communities Poznan Elyakim especially for his daughter created a whole product in the format of the book, which is called a "good heart". There also have been described and these commandments for good wives after the break...
1. Be careful when your husband is angry. At this point, do not be no fun, no grumpy - smiled and said softly.
2. Do not make your husband wait for food. Hunger - the father of anger.
3. Do not wake him when he sleeps.
4. Be careful with his money. Do not hide from him his financial affairs.
5. Keep it secret. If he brags, and keep it a secret.
6. I do not approve of his enemies and not hate his friends.
7. I do not mind him and do not claim that your advice is better than him.
8. Do not expect the impossible.
9. If you will be attentive to his request, he will be your slave.
10. Do not say anything that would hurt him. If you're going to treat him like a king, he will treat you like a queen.
Wishing you a happy marriage and hoping that your life together will be rich in joy and love.
May this day you share be filled with love and laughter, May all the days ahead be happy ever after!
Thanks for your wishes sindhu :) These commandments were applicable for a girl born and raised in the 17th century.I'm a living example of a 21st century woman....this list of 'COMMANDMENTS' sounds more like boot camp rules rather than tips to live happily with your life partner.When 2 people decide to share their lives in joy and sorrow, in sickness and health...they exactly know what they are promising each other.Oh my oh...our women have to come out of this cocoon,learn to live their lives as lifetime companions instead of following rules to keep their marriage alive.Just glad that I'm with a man who really treats me like a woman...not a queen.He knows what i'm capable of and has accepted me the way i'am...the way i have accepted him.
10 Commandments for good wives
ReplyDeleteEven in the distant 17 th century Rabbi Yitzhak ben communities Poznan Elyakim especially for his daughter created a whole product in the format of the book, which is called a "good heart". There also have been described and these commandments for good wives after the break...
1. Be careful when your husband is angry. At this point, do not be no fun, no grumpy - smiled and said softly.
2. Do not make your husband wait for food. Hunger - the father of anger.
3. Do not wake him when he sleeps.
4. Be careful with his money. Do not hide from him his financial affairs.
5. Keep it secret. If he brags, and keep it a secret.
6. I do not approve of his enemies and not hate his friends.
7. I do not mind him and do not claim that your advice is better than him.
8. Do not expect the impossible.
9. If you will be attentive to his request, he will be your slave.
10. Do not say anything that would hurt him. If you're going to treat him like a king, he will treat you like a queen.
Wishing you a happy marriage and hoping that your life together will be rich in joy and love.
May this day you share be filled with love and laughter, May all the days ahead be happy ever after!
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Thanks for your wishes sindhu :) These commandments were applicable for a girl born and raised in the 17th century.I'm a living example of a 21st century woman....this list of 'COMMANDMENTS' sounds more like boot camp rules rather than tips to live happily with your life partner.When 2 people decide to share their lives in joy and sorrow, in sickness and health...they exactly know what they are promising each other.Oh my oh...our women have to come out of this cocoon,learn to live their lives as lifetime companions instead of following rules to keep their marriage alive.Just glad that I'm with a man who really treats me like a woman...not a queen.He knows what i'm capable of and has accepted me the way i'am...the way i have accepted him.
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